https://learn.syned.org/eportfolios/1242/_/Starting_A_Conversation_With_A_Girl_You_Dont_Know
https://gwaea.instructure.com/eportfolios/1966/Home/PUA_Openers__How_To_Start_A_Conversation_With_A_Girl
https://kipp.instructure.com/eportfolios/603/Home/Opinion_Openers
https://canvas.laurea.fi/eportfolios/13349/Home/How_To_Use_Your_Copywriting_Skills_To_Pick_Up_Women_In_Bars_And_Clubs
https://stpatrickhighschool.instructure.com/eportfolios/1372/_/How_To_Approach_A_Girl
https://base2edu.instructure.com/eportfolios/7109/Pgina_inicial/Lame_Pick_Up_Lines
https://degnonassociates.instructure.com/eportfolios/1215/Home/Why_Are_Women_Afraid_Of_Sex
https://casprod.lgaq.asn.au/web/okcupid/home/-/blogs/the-6-most-dangerous-mistakes-men-make-with-women
https://texserve.instructure.com/eportfolios/6852/Home/The_Potential_Husband_vs_The_Lover__How_To_Stay_Out_Of_Commitment
https://okcupid.wodemo.com/entry/536916

He is so right about that!

Other things he says that I like:

The qualities that attract us to each other also repel: “We love your feistiness. We tire of the battles; We love your active mind. We tire of the arguments; We love your passion. We tire of the drama.” (OK, guys can have drama, too, but whatever.)
If you want a masculine guy, embrace your passive feminine side.
Most guys aren’t bad guys, some are just clueless; cut them some slack.
Don’t live by arbitrary rules, like you’ll only have sex after x-number of dates. All we have to do is figure out if a guy is interested in us or sex. If we don’t know the answer, don’t get naked!; go ahead if we think we do.
Don’t rush through a relationship as if we’re trying to get to the end of a novel; let things develop organically, not with insecurity and fear of what’s next.
The best we can do to keep a guy around is by enhancing his life — “making it better, easier, and more pleasurable than if he was single.” Kinda like wanting to feel special.
It’s not like Evan wants us to be doormats, but choosing the battles — as any mom of a teenager knows — is key; “by letting go of control of the small things, you get to win the big ones.”
When it comes to a man accepting who we are — Meredith Brooks’ declaration that a guy should “take me as I am; this may mean you’ll have to be a stronger man” isn’t always the right way. “Alter the perception of who you are.” We all tend to focus on our own needs, not always our guy’s needs. Hey, he has them too.
Ultimately, here’s the book’s take-home message:

“(I)f you were dating a good, solid, relationship-oriented man who suddenly disappeared, chances are not that he’s threatened; but that he’s looking for someone who makes him feel better about himself than you do.”

That’s hard to hear, but hear it we must. Guess guys like to feel “special,” too.

So, do you need to read “Why He Disappeared“?

If you can figure this stuff out on your own and stick to it without downing numerous pints of Ben & Jerry’s or Lemon Drops, and burning out your girlfriends as you “process” for the umpteenth time, probably not.

If you want to have a comforting “I know what you’re going through” voice to keep you true to yourself, then by all means, buy it.

Here’s the link to “Why He Disappeared“; the ebook, audio and video package is on sale through Sunday (with a one-year money-back guarantee, longer than many relationships!).

Just tell him you were sent by Kat …

… who probably should be writing, “Why She Disappeared.”

Do you believe your partner should make you feel “special”?


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