https://castbox.fm/episode/Details-On-My-Upcoming-Guide-id4671896-id442402754 I'm always the one to end the night, and I always get the impression that they want to come out again, but then they don't answer next time I call. I can only think of it coming down to my lack of being sexual. It took me so fucking long to learn this lesson, it wasn't even funny. What lesson? If you're alone with a woman, and you don't go for it, the chances of you actually getting that opportunity again, is next to nil. I found that women will still have sex with a guy after she rejects his initial attempt, because they admire his confidence, but if a guy is too chickenshit, they'll never forgive it. Go back, and read some of my lay stories. In particular, pay attention to the times where the girls rejected my initial sexual advances. What happened? Every single time, the girl eventually had sex with me. And the girls did all of the sexual advancing after they rejected me. And it looks like you've realized your problem, you aren't being sexual. And I'll let you in on a secret; I've NEVER had sex with a woman that I wasn't sexual with. So, in other words, if you aren't sexual, you'll NEVER get the lay. during the night they're laughing, we're teasing, talking about what makes us tick and what we're passionate about. I'm still too chickenshit when it comes to getting sexual, and I never liked using canned material to get responses. it feels incongruent. What are you, her friend? All those things are great and all, but if you ever want to have sex with a woman, you have to be sexual from the instance you two are alone. When Sex Lips and I (type her name in the search box of my blog) went on our first date, I immediately told her that I only wanted a sex deal, no relationship? And what did she do? Not only did she invite me up to her apartment, but she pounced on me, and I had to fight to keep her off of me. If you think being sexual is all about routines and canned materials, you're wrong. Sexual conversation is good, but when I get sexual, it's all about my body language, tone of voice, and providing a sexual atmosphere. I'll elaborate on this in my upcoming guide, but for now, if I have time today, I'll put up a story that surprisingly took place right when I got your message. I read a bunch of your notes and I noticed that you spontaneously jump to a sexual vibe. what can I do to steer an interaction towards sex naturally? how do you make an sexual topic innocent so easily? In short, I get sexual the instant we are alone. This coming from a guy that use to be afraid to even kiss a girl. No bullshit. My first kiss was of my girlfriend at the time grabbing me and making me kiss her. Something comes naturally by forcing yourself to try it out a few times and then making a judgment as to whether or not it's for you. Just about all of the shit I do is a result of simply going out of my comfort zone, trying it, keeping what works, and discarding what doesn't. And how do I make the sexual things I do look innocent and easy? One, I am very comfortable being sexual. Why? Experience. And you'll never gain experience if you don't try anything. And two, if a girl reacts a way I am displeased with, I immediately put her on the spot as if she's the immature one ("I |